The Tech Hellscape Just Got Its Own Language

Technology has become so packed with irritations, intrusions, and grand promises that everyday frustration now needs its own vocabulary. From websites that hide their content to chatbots that swear more than before, the digital world keeps finding new ways to surprise us.
At the same time, AI is spreading into search, social media, music, politics, hardware, and even dinner-party memories. What happens when every app wants to generate something, every company wants control, and every device depends on servers that can disappear?
Meet the “dickover” and the subscription maze
Tech writer John Gruber coined the term “dickover” for a modal panel, popover, or curtain that a website or app presents over its own content, deliberately blocking the user and creating frustration. It captures a familiar experience: opening a page only to find the information buried beneath an obstacle that demands attention first.
The dickover belongs to a larger family of digital annoyances. Google places an AI overview before search results, Instagram creates AI images, and Spotify offers an AI DJ, showing how AI features are being shoehorned into nearly every corner of the internet.
Subscription cancellation has become another test of patience. In 2026, cancelling an unwanted subscription should require exactly one mouse click, yet companies often send users through a series of desperate pages or force them to call before the service finally ends.
Abandoned purchases can trigger another barrage: consumers often receive at least a week of increasingly needy emails from vendors after leaving an item behind. The result is a web experience that does not simply offer services; it keeps pressing for another decision.
Writer Carmen Hermosillo described one part of this digital experience with a striking image: “It is a black hole; it absorbs energy and personality and then re-presents it as spectacle.”
AI is getting stranger, louder, and harder to escape
ChatGPT has recently been observed using more swear words, with the increase coinciding with OpenAI’s switch from GPT-5.5 to GPT-5.6 Luna as the default model for free users. Some users enjoy the added profanity because it makes conversations feel more natural, while others noticed a decrease in profanity since August 9.
OpenAI declined to comment on the increase. That silence leaves users comparing the model’s behavior for themselves, turning everyday conversations into an informal test of how AI personalities can change when the default system changes.
The wider AI race is producing bigger stakes. The US plans to force partners to pick sides, with a draft letter warning allies against joining China’s AI initiative. China’s strategic hardware push is also gaining force: memory chipmaker CXMT is now the country’s most valuable company.
The money behind AI infrastructure is enormous. Nvidia has committed up to $105 billion to OpenAI’s Ohio data center, while the data center could cost up to $500 billion. Anthropic CEO Dario Amodei cut through the hype with a blunt statement: “The thing that will work is actually curing cancer.”
Other experiments stretch the boundaries of science and machines. Astronomers have found evidence for a “black hole star” 100,000 times bigger than the Sun, while scientists have found signs that aging may be a programmed process, with distinct stages across mouse cells, and have created female clones of male mice.
Robotics is pushing ahead too. The new “Superman” robot can cover 12.66 meters in a second, while Xander’s 15-inch-tall Moxie was designed to assist neurodivergent children. Moxie’s life became troubled after its maker went out of business and its servers shut down, exposing the fragile link between helpful hardware and the companies that keep it alive.
Control, surveillance, and a growing backlash
Meta has patented facial recognition technology for AI glasses that could identify people and create highlight reels of dinner parties. That idea places private gatherings inside a system built to recognize faces, capture moments, and turn them into a generated record.
Surveillance concerns are also gathering around Flock Safety, whose network contains 120,000 automatic license plate readers. The backlash against Flock could become part of a broader tech rebellion as people express dissatisfaction with tech billionaires’ control.
Meta is facing a lawsuit joined by more than half of the states in the US, with some states demanding $1.4 trillion in damages. Amazon is pursuing a different path to limit legal exposure, trying to prevent class-action suits by requiring disputes to be resolved through arbitration.
These fights connect with a political battle over speech online. The idea of a “censorship-industrial complex” describes government agencies, academics, civil society groups, and Big Tech working together to suppress conservative and populist speech, and that idea has entered US policy.
The consequences of technology also show up far beyond screens. Puerto Rico is rationing water even though it could have harvested rainwater, with up to 30 billion gallons available for collection each year. During a blizzard, nearly 10% of Lincoln Electric System’s 150,000 customers lost power.
Even the people building and regulating these systems are now part of the story. Paul Atkins is chairman of the US Securities and Exchange Commission, Shawn Thew is an EPA/Bloomberg photographer, and Allie Garfinkle is a senior writer and editor at Fortune. Their names sit alongside the larger arguments over technology, policy, infrastructure, and public trust.
The vocabulary will keep growing because the systems keep changing. A popover can become a dickover, a helpful robot can become useless when its servers vanish, and a chatbot’s personality can shift with a model update. The next chapter of tech will not only be about what AI can create, but also about who controls it, who pays for it, and whether people can still push back.
Based on
- Dickovers, baggravation and botiquette: 18 new words to describe our tech hellscape — theguardian.com
- The Download: how people really use AI, and Flock’s design choices | MIT Technology Review — technologyreview.com
- The Download: dead robot friends and the “censorship-industrial complex” | MIT Technology Review — technologyreview.com
- Is ChatGPT dropping more f-bombs lately? Users think so. | Business Insider Africa — africa.businessinsider.com
- AI gets its own “boiler room” scandal | Fortune — fortune.com




